Keep my glass full.

That is the first step towards getting my attention.
Then tell me where you've been in your life
and let's hope you can speak more than one language.
Say all the things no one would hope to hear on a first encounter. Not because I like your shenanigans, but because I hate the obvious.
Keep it clean. No one wants to hear about your sexual perversions (actually, I do -but not just yet).
Make me giggle. Make me laugh.
Don't always agree with me. I enjoy having things to argue about.
Be persuasive, and subtle.
Don't ask things if you're not interested. Pretending to care is not a shortcut into my pants.